School’s Out for the Summer: Implementing Summer Routine and Structure

Summer is here, and our kids are excited for the warmer weather, spending time in the pool or at the beach, and vacationing with family and friends. The summer is an important time for kids of all ages to reboot. It provides them with the opportunity to just be “kids,” play, build resiliency, and help cope with stressors in day-to-day life.
Now that summer is in full swing, it is important for parents and caregivers to recognize that school-aged children transitioning from a highly structured and regimented schedule during the day to a far less coordinated environment. Let’s pause for a moment and think about your child’s typical school day, and remind ourselves that teachers and other school personnel work extremely hard to maintain a highly regimented schedule for our kids each day. Remember the daily schedule that is often on full display in our classrooms? It serves an important role.
Consequently, the duty of providing such structure now falls on the shoulders of parents and caregivers. This can be challenging, especially for families where both parents work full-time and when there are limited opportunities for enrollment in camps or other programs that provide childcare along with the necessary activities of structure. Below are some helpful tips for incorporating structure and routine during the summer months, while maintaining fun and providing opportunities for our kids to reboot:
- Create a schedule and establish routine
- Be collaborative and develop withyour children.
- Be consistent, but also flexible.
- Create a weekly schedule using a whiteboard that is visible at all times.
- Identify a list of activities for rainy days and/or days with extreme heat.
- Identify budget-friendly activities, such as going to the park, library or museums.
- Schedule “down time,” or rest periods, especially during hot summer days.
- Maintain Expectations:
- Use Positive Reinforcement and where age appropriate, use of reward system can be very helpful. For households with siblings, implement such symptoms house wide, not just for one child.
- Communicate clearly and maintain consistency across parents and caregivers.
- When there are expectations to keep up with reading and other school-based activities, Be Creative and incorporate opportunities to earn rewards and provide positive reinforcement. For example, “Reading Bingo.”
- Self-Care
- Parents – Take care of yourselves.
- Work with your partner or other caregivers to balance responsibilities and childcare.
- Schedule quality time with your partner on the weekends.
- Alternate childcare with neighbors or friends.
If we can help you implement structure into your summer schedule, please reach out to us!
The mental health providers at the Center are here to provide you or a loved one with therapy or assessment services this summer. Call 215-491-1119 to schedule an appointment!